Editor’s Note: We asked our readers to chime in on some key topics. Note that the responses below reflect the views of our guest columnists, and may not necessarily reflect the views of Ask J. Boz.

J. Boz: What kind of secrets – if any -- should couples keep from each other?

Rina, 25, NY: Owww, that’s a tough one! I find it best to be open about most things. When you tell your loved one something that you know will cause an argument or make things uncomfortable for the time being, eventually it will make the trust between the two of you stronger because you have that openness.

One thing I always do like to keep secret is when one of my boyfriend's friends hits on me. Unless they take it to another level where they physically make a move on you, telling your boyfriend does nothing but cause problems! You wouldn’t be able to hang out with him and his friends anymore. The friend might deny it and possibly accuse you of being the one making the move.

It’s best to just take it as a compliment and not say anything at all!